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Postby Stellar » Fri Jan 25, 2008 2:07 am

Guess what came in the mail!?!

The packet of information from the clinic I want to have my srs done at ^___^

Now I know exactly what I need to gather from all of my medical and psychotherapy sources! (Most of us know the basic 2 letters of reccomendations and living for __ amount of time as a female, but there's more details that I knew was there, but didn't specifically know about)

I also know the price.. But that impending number isn't important, I know I can get the funding, plus when i file my taxes soon i'll have the money for the down payments they require. And to make the cake even sweeter, i've got an interview for a second job tomorrow, which means i'll actually beable to save some money each month (I wont die of exhaustion =p i have like 8 extra hours a day when i'm not sleeping or slaving at taco bell, so it'll work out nicely =D). Hopefully I'll be able to save up enough to add in another procedure that I really want done; but if not, oh well, it's isignificant compared to getting srs completed.

So yeah~

I'm very happy ^_^
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Rowan » Fri Jan 25, 2008 2:40 am

Congrats!

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Postby Gee-chan » Fri Jan 25, 2008 4:42 am

YAY! Go you!
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Xia » Fri Jan 25, 2008 11:52 am

Glad to know things are working out

Do keep us posted dear
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby AshK » Fri Jan 25, 2008 11:53 am

Congrats. I was just wondering what would make someone want to get Sexual Reassignment Surgery? If it's too personal it doesn't have to be stated. If that's what you want to do to be happy with yourself, go for it. As for me, I am happy remaining a real life Male and an MSF Female. Congrats Stellar!
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Postby Mistress Guendolen » Fri Jan 25, 2008 8:25 pm

Excellent news. I hope everything continues to go well for you. :)
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Stellar » Fri Jan 25, 2008 9:20 pm

Don't worry, it's not too personal. Inquisitive minds make the world a funner place =)

But it's really difficult to answer that question. I've never really considdered myself much of a boy, and through my teens I realized I didn't want to be one... And honestly when i first considdered myself transgendered I didn't think I wanted to undertake srs. Over the last two years though I decided I really did want to, partly because I'm stubborn and don't like to leave things unfinished, and mostly because I've changed some and beleive that I should undeniably be female, since that's how I feel.
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby AshK » Fri Jan 25, 2008 9:29 pm

Stellar wrote:Don't worry, it's not too personal. Inquisitive minds make the world a funner place =)

But it's really difficult to answer that question. I've never really considdered myself much of a boy, and through my teens I realized I didn't want to be one... And honestly when i first considdered myself transgendered I didn't think I wanted to undertake srs. Over the last two years though I decided I really did want to, partly because I'm stubborn and don't like to leave things unfinished, and mostly because I've changed some and beleive that I should undeniably be female, since that's how I feel.


Oh no problem Stellar-Chan! You are a Beautiful Female. If I didn't already have a girlfriend and if we lived close to each other , I would ask you out. More power to ya for doing what you want to do to be happy. Congrats again Stellar-Chan!
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Christina Anikari » Sat Jan 26, 2008 1:36 pm

Congratulations Stellar. I am happy for you finally getting what you want and need.

And to answer your question, Erin, then it ultimately doesn't make sense. To me at least it is like asking about my emotional need to breath, it is as much a drive and a necessity for me to get SRS sooner or later, but it is hardly rational. It did not become like that until i started accepting this aspect of myself enough to even explore it, but when i did it quickly came to be a necessity for me to truly become a girl and SRS is an important part of that. Also and i think that is probably quite important, i will not be able to accept myself sexually until i have gotten it. Stellar might have other reasons but that is the way it is for me.
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby AshK » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:38 pm

Christina Anikari wrote:Congratulations Stellar. I am happy for you finally getting what you want and need.

And to answer your question, Erin, then it ultimately doesn't make sense. To me at least it is like asking about my emotional need to breath, it is as much a drive and a necessity for me to get SRS sooner or later, but it is hardly rational. It did not become like that until i started accepting this aspect of myself enough to even explore it, but when i did it quickly came to be a necessity for me to truly become a girl and SRS is an important part of that. Also and i think that is probably quite important, i will not be able to accept myself sexually until i have gotten it. Stellar might have other reasons but that is the way it is for me.


That's cool Christina. if I was in your and Stellar's positions, fortunately I'm not, no offense intended to either of you if you took it, I would probably do what you and Stellar are doing. I know a Fan Fiction writer that had the same thing done, but it was because of Gender Identity Dysphoria, which is what usually leads to Sexual Reassignment Surgery, or SRS if you prefer. More power to the both of you for doing what you want to do to make yourself happy.

Peace Ladies!

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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Mitera Nikkou » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:35 pm

You probably know what I think about SRS, but I wish you luck all the same. Be the master of your destiny and whatnot.
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Stellar » Sat Jan 26, 2008 8:44 pm

Erin the Espeon wrote:I know a Fan Fiction writer that had the same thing done, but it was because of Gender Identity Dysphoria, which is what usually leads to Sexual Reassignment Surgery, or SRS if you prefer.


Silly silly, here in the states you have to labled with gender dysphoria before any therapist or doctor will take you as a transgendered patient, which then leads down the adventurous road I'm on.

Nekkid~ Of course I remember you thoughts on it, but thanks for the good tidings =)
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Mitera Nikkou » Sun Jan 27, 2008 12:11 am

Good tidings come with no tidings.

Man, that's one hell of a joke right there. It should be on a "get well" card for after the procedure. ;/
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Lucky » Mon Jan 28, 2008 12:15 am

Congratulations on the good news! I might not know you that well yet, but it's still good news to hear.
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Re: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh!!

Postby Just some lady » Tue Jan 29, 2008 9:11 pm

*Totally missed this topic until now*

Wow--congrats, Stellar! ^_____^
I hope it all goes weeeeell~!
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