Looking for love?

[Mitera Nikkou]

If the general mindset of the world were different, I wouldn't mind loving just about everyone. Otherwise, I'm really not interested. And I have better things to do. Like convincing you to buy Cialis.

That should do.

[Chibi MitchellTF]

*Gives his girlfriend an internet hug*

I love my girlfriend...

[Mistress Guendolen]

None of these quite matched up with me. I wouldn't mind being with someone, but I don't expect it to happen. I suspect that I'm going to spend my life alone, at least in this respect. I just don't seem to have what it takes to attract another person... like, well, attractiveness, for one. I don't worry about it TOO much, because I figure there's no point in bemoaning and moping over it, not to mention not missing what I've never had. But well, most of the people I hang out with in real life seem to be coupled up, and well, it does occasionally get frustrating.... The world works to try to make us single people feel like there's something wrong with us, you know? And the fact that some of those in these pairings have couple-itis and keep telling me I need to be part of one too doesn't help matters any. I'm like, "Okay, people, HOW?"

[SweetSophia]

Wellllllllllllllll.....(deep breath)....I'd like to meet someone, I really would, but I've got the bizarre combination of an antiquated sense of romanticism stemming from being brought up on classical literature and storybooks combined with sexual deviancy that doesn't give me much of a clue who or what I'm looking for. There's the whole bisexual/pansexual/not-really-caring-about-what-gender-or-lack-of-my-significant-other-will-be thing and my confusion over my gender identify that has led me to be unsure whether I'm supposed to be the metaphorical knight in shining armor, the princess, neither or some yet unkown combination of the two. Love is beautiful and it's really important to me to find someone, but at this rate, I may end up as a crazy old transsexual cat lady...man...person.

Then again, things like this come natural to me. I've been writing love poetry since I could write, things like compassion and affection have always been some of my strong point overshadowing the lack of a lot of other desirable traits, and the few times romantic situations have ever come up in my life everyone seemed totally surprised and impressed that I was far from the goober I am often belived to be.

So...in summary, I just don't know, but I'm going to shut up now.
Don't mean to rant. That is all.

[Mistress Guendolen]

Hey, this seems like a good place to go off on rants like that, though. And hey, there must be other people out there with the same general sort of mental set-up as you.... You can't possibly be the only one. It's just that it's not something people advertise, so you have to delve deeper to locate such fundamental traits to bond with. I do hope you find that person. I don't want other people to be lonely.

[Raijin]

I dunno I've never really been interested in a realationship other then friendships xP

[Stellar]

The Stellar one is far too complicated to answer this poll...

[Anamnesis]

I'm...not sure what to say, either..........
I mean, I've had a few 'significant others,' but my last one...she was special. I don't think I can love anything that lives ANYMORE, but, not so far as anything that ever lived.

[P-tan]

Love is for the weak.

I was weak.
Maybe it's just my bad experience with humanity that made me lose all of my trust.

Wario quote: People may betray you, but money(or other material items) never will!

(I'm so sad and lonely) <-- Disregard/Humor sarcasm

[Beyond]

I am with Warrio here... wait. What am I saying?

<__<

>__>

I had a few significant others... but time and distance usually makes it hard for us to go on...

[Christina Anikari]

I kinda am...actually not just kinda, i am. I haven't got much experience in the field, but that doesn't mean i am unable to want it. I am less certain about why. Part of it is biological imperative to be together with others and part a desire to validate myself as a social being i suppose, though it sounds so cynical like that. Still it is probably the truth about the origin of my feelings on the topic, though i really think that it is less important than what those feelings are.

[Zeph]

My relationships have been few and rather uneventful. I'm still waiting on something interesting to happen.

[Musashi]

Got someone! The adorable and snuggly Scarplo. :3 *Does a lil' dance~* He is mine soulmate! W00t~

I love love. XD

[Mitera Nikkou]

Gwen:

Yeah, that's part of the reason why for me as well. Besides the fact that I consider myself oogly (lotsa unappealing XD), I see how wrong relationships can go and I wonder if it's worth it. I've given it some thought many times, and if I found someone that was willing to like me, I'd shower them with enough love for the world. Of course, then I get to thinking about how many other people could need that sort of love... Lots of lonely and sad people that haven't done anything wrong, and it makes me feel like I'm being partial and selfish to ignore them. ~.~

Of course, being a hermit doesn't exactly start me out with a good chance of finding anyone anyway. ^_^;

Sweets:

I know how that is. I've wondered if I'd be willing to choose love or sex (reproductive body framework kind, not extracarricular activity XD) over the other, and I think that I could settle for being male if I could find someone (or they find me) to share my love with. I may not being overly happy about it, being male and selfish/partial, but at least it'll be a new experience and another way of making someone else in the world happy.

Raijin:

That's what I generally fall back to, since going any farther is so complex, confusing and unlikely to happen. XD

Stellar:

Nuh-uh. I've pegged you as a friend. You're not so complicated. ;p We can just say that you're a complicator. Well, so am I; so let's have homocomplicator relations! XD

SoS:

I know how that is. You probably won't think that a cat is worth being on the same scale, but I've lost a lot of special kitties over the years, many of which have been better friends to me than any human I've ever come into contact with (in real life, not the Internets). I guess it's kind of like losing a child... Many of them I raised and took care of the most. By now, though, I've kind of lost the heart to cry about such things anymore.

animeh8er:

I thought that love was for the blind. ;p

[Mistress Guendolen]

And what makes these lonely or sad people any more deserving of love thna you are? You deserve it just as much as they do. Everyone does. But not everyone gets what they deserve. Just because I don't fret over it doesn't mean I wouldn't like to try it. I just don't see any reason to fret myself into a funk over being denied it. I've resigned myself to being a solitary unit; that doesn't mean I have to like it, but by the same token, it also means I've accepted it and don't wallow in misery because of my solitude. It's only to be expected, when you look like me. In the world we live in, relationships typically at least start due to superficial physical attractivenes. I don't fit the bill for what's supposed to be attractive for a female in modern American society, so therefore no one gives me a second glance regardless of what might be on the inside. Granted, the one and only time someone ever did give me any sort of second glancing, my brain shut down out of shock, so maybe it's just as well.... A state of mental "Duh?" isn't exactly conducive for starting this sort of thing.