Wait... what? o_O Er, so all men naturally want to rape, but are restraining themselves from doing so? o_o;; I dunno about that. >_>;;
I kind of figured I wouldn't be understood, so it looks like I must put more effort to clear up my meaning. For you, too, Dracos. ;/
What I mean by "normal," (not "natural"; there is a difference) is the inclination to desire and/or have sex. As it was mentioned before, there are countless other ways to express control, anger, and whatever else that could harm someone else and/or gratify one's self. The idea behind rape is that it's non-consensual. Obviously you can have sex without resorting to rape. So if a man desires sex, but has no moral compass, what's going to stop him from deciding to rape? Of course, even with a personality, people can still decide to do what they know is wrong, because they reason that it's worth doing it. The drive doesn't have to be sex, or the pleasure of it, but rape inevitably involves sex.
For a long time rape was a behavior considered tolerable and allowable in a lot of circumstances, one of the best examples being the sacking of cities and towns. How wonderful it was for them to get their rocks off after a life-threatening battle. The fact is that, for many men, their sex life is a fundamental part of their lives. It's
normal to want sex. Without a mind to keep that, and possibly other things, in check, it'd thus be normal to rape. Not that rape hasn't been a normal occurrence already, mind you.
I'd probably try to explore women who rape, but I'm not female and, at least to me, their position seems a bit more complex. Whenever I think about a woman raping a man, I end up wondering how often it's actually seduction. Because I imagine that a man, so long as he wasn't injured, would just consider it a surprising (if perhaps disturbing) sexual encounter or something.
Although I can see them claiming rape if he's afraid the woman will have a child and try to dig into his finances that way. *Shrugs*