by Mitera Nikkou » Fri Feb 19, 2010 12:08 pm
No, you didn't find the idea depressing, you made the idea depressing. You just proved my point regarding why it doesn't matter one way or the other: because you just gave meaning and definition to what was supposedly meaningless. You just gave up all of the wonders of life simply because of the idea that it all amounts to nothing, even though thinking that oblivion itself means that is a gross assumption. Your mistake is the same mistake that a lot of other people make: they look at, define, and conclude something in a negative light simply because it differs from what they already think is "right", "true" and "good."
Everyone and everything has meaning or no meaning depending on the person observing them. Even if I was sure that oblivion awaited me at the end of my life, I wouldn't come to the conclusion that what ends with no resolution dictates that what led up to it is also without resolution; not absolutely. It'd depend on the individual. In fact, with the contrast of life and death, that can give people even more reason to find meaning in life, if what is made in life is unmade in death. You know, enjoy something while it lasts, because no one, and no thing, is going to do that for you. You've got a mind, use it: be optimistic, altruistic and good. For the sake of? Does it matter? The beauty of life is that we have all of these possibilities, and we're free to make of ourselves, and our environment, what we will.
Like I said before, people will believe what they want regardless of what they think is the ultimate truth. One person may go on a shooting spree and kill people, or devote their time to helping the unfortunate, whether they think oblivion, Heaven/Hell, or reincarnation awaits them. People will do what they're wont to do. The true folly is in allowing the ends to justify the means, the death to define the life. As with finding the proper means to an end, one should try to live a full life in spite of what awaits them when they die. You know, living the kind of life where, upon your death bed, you hold no regrets and the idea of death is a comforting one. Because you lived.
Not all accidents are bad. Some are blessings, whether they're easy to see or not. It all depends on how you look at it.
On another note, why care about something that you can't be sure of? Just worry about the life that you know, rather than the death that you don't know. Try to enjoy life for what it is, despite whatever you may think it is. In the end, if life continues after death, handle it as it comes, just as you did as you had lived previously: because, if life doesn't continue, then you won't have a consciousness that would allow you to care. Live in the now, as some say. Don't let it slip through your fingers.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned because only women can give two tits for every tat.
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